On top of the graduation countdown, I'm learning, again, that people disappoint you. I'm trying super hard to dig deep and forgive them. But, right now, I can't. I just want to be mad. I think you have to be mad or feel something before forgiving. Or, maybe I'm just making an excuse to not forgive someone. I don't know.
I know what I SHOULD do, but I don't know HOW to do it. I know that holding a grudge is wrong and really does nothing beneficial for you. Hating someone won't make them realize suddenly that they're wrong. It also won't make them apologize or be a better a person. Maybe that is what I need to accept.
I find it incredibly hard to even wrap my mind around the things some people can say to another person or, why they even say them. But, not everyone is built like me and not everyone thinks like I think. The best way to get love is to give it. But, easier said than done. Guess that's why there aren't a million Mother Theresa's running around, (not that I'm comparing myself to Mother Theresa).
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong." - Mahatma Gandhi
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